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Brenda Stevenson's avatar

That was so beautiful Janet. The chart was helpful- I realize I have said some of the things on the wrong side of the chart- so good to recognize and now understand. You introduced me to Stephen Jenkinson (sp?) - such a unique perspective he has, and I am drawn to it. This needs to be taught, instead we go unprepared for what grief is, even though we will all experience at some point in time.

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Janet McNeill's avatar

Oh, we've all made those mistakes - we really aren't taught about grief in our culture! As Jenkinson says, we're "grief-illiterate." But ... we can always learn. I'm glad you liked the posting.

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Patti's avatar

I am so sorry to learn of this, Janet. Love and peace to you as you work your way through this difficult time.

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Mickey Z.'s avatar

Sending love and prayers to you, my friends. Thank you for this profound post. 🙏

I feel your pain: https://mickeyz.substack.com/p/how-do-we-heal-from-a-pandemic-of

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Janet McNeill's avatar

Oh I love that post you linked me to! Grief is a deep topic, & we all experience it, but we seem to mostly not want to touch it with a 10-foot pole in our culture. And oh my, how much grief we're all feeling now - almost 4 years into this new world order (if I may call it that) - but so unacknowledged, by so many! (the grief, the many losses, & the new world order!)

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Mickey Z.'s avatar

I appreciate you taking the time to read it amidst all you're going through...and I'm thrilled if it offered even a little solace. Please be sure to keep practicing self-care.

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